Monday, September 17, 2007

that DAD.. is my DAD

the reason why im blogging right now is because... my dad's in town.

it gotta mean that....

1) stow away those alcoholic drinks from his sight


2) no more spending my nights on the sofa


3) keep a low profile when using the phone (else he gotta start buzzing all the '?s' like what, when, where, WHO)


4) find an extremely logical and wise reason for leaving the house

5) sleep early, wake up early. (ok this is Really for our own good)

6) continuous probing of all the 'what time's...


(REMARK #1 DELETED)

just like my mum says about the flying kite theory.. 'focus on how much is enough and how much is too much'

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Tuesday, September 11, 2007

the 1109 victims, our lesson

without realizing, 6 yrs had passed.
do take a few seconds to commemorate the sept-11 victims.

THINK. PONDER. VISUALIZE. UNDERSTAND.

compared to the victims' family members who are Still around, we are extremely blessed and favored.
they struggled to stay alive, without having their loved ones by their side.

yet some of us(includes me) who own a complete family, aint cherishin what we have. but rather, take them for granted.
do not wait until you lose em before you finally realize that they are a part of your life.
its time to do some reflection.
time to set our priorities right.
life's short, we never know when we are gonna be separated by distance.
our parents, our grands, our family members, our friends and all our loved ones;
we gotta maintain good ties with one another while its still possible.
treasure them like today's the last day of your life.

rather than spending your time pondering how to add years to our/their life,
use the time to treat em right, to treat em better, to make em feel loved, and to make em feel impt.
yes its easy to say but hard to do.

im afraid to imagine what im bound to face in time to come, yet im not doing anythin to re-shape the situation.
truth is, we're not the helpless ones, but the unconcerned ones.

i hate to appear so vulnerable and frail,
but im sure the fact that this year's been a rather tragic year made us go weak on our knees.
accidents, illnesses, diseases.. a jumble of grievous happenings constantly took place
on the media, and everywher around us.

im a loser when it comes to expressing concern, love and stuff, but it doesnt mean that i dont appreciate em.
it gave me the cold creeps each time i thought of doin that, it feels so unseemly

im afraid to face the rough days ahead.
but life still has to move on.
i dont wanna end up cryin over my regrets, cos i know that it doesnt alleviate the pain.
some regrets can never be mend.

give me a little love.
make me feel loved.

hand in hand, love is sent